Starting nursery is a big step for young children, and families play a crucial role in helping their child feel prepared and confident. Here are practical ways you can support your 3-year-old’s readiness for their new adventure with us here at Colham Manor Nursery!

1. Encourage Independence

Teach basic self-help skills, such as washing hands, putting on shoes, or tidying up toys.

Practice using a cup, feeding themselves, and managing simple tasks like opening a lunchbox.

2. Establish Routines

Set consistent wake-up, meal, and bedtime routines to help your child adjust to structured days.

Introduce a morning routine similar to what they’ll experience on nursery days.

3. Build Social Skills

Arrange playdates or opportunities to interact with other children.

Encourage sharing, taking turns, and resolving small disagreements during play.

4. Develop Communication Skills

Talk with your child about their feelings, encourage them to express themselves, and practice basic phrases they might use, such as “Can I play?” or “I need help.”

Read books together to expand their vocabulary and spark conversations.

5. Introduce Nursery Concepts

Talk positively about nursery, describing it as a fun place where they’ll meet new friends, play games, and learn new things.

Use role-play to act out nursery scenarios, such as circle time or snack breaks.

6. Foster Emotional Readiness

Reassure your child that it’s okay to feel nervous or excited and that you’ll always be there to pick them up.

Teach them simple coping strategies for separation, like hugging a favorite toy or saying a special goodbye.

7. Practice Listening and Following Instructions

Encourage activities that require listening and following simple directions, such as games like Simon Says or helping with small tasks around the house.

8. Read Stories About Starting Nursery

Share books about going to nursery to help your child understand what to expect and spark excitement. See our recommendations on the previous page. 

9. Visit the Nursery

Attend open days or settling-in sessions so your child can explore the environment and meet the staff. Familiarity with the space can ease their transition. 

10. Provide Comfort and Reassurance

Allow your child to bring a comfort item, like a small stuffed animal or blanket in the initial days of nursery.

Be positive, present and encouraging during drop-offs, but avoid lingering, as this can make goodbyes harder.

11. Encourage Independence in Toileting 

Help your child practice using the toilet independently and washing their hands.

Communicate with nursery staff about your child’s progress in this area to ensure consistency.

12. Be Patient and Supportive

Understand that every child adjusts at their own pace. Offer praise for their efforts and provide a comforting presence as they adapt.

By gradually preparing your child in these ways, you’ll help them feel ready and excited to begin their nursery journey, setting the stage for a successful transition and a happy start.